Don't Waste Your Time: How to Know if a Man Is Good for a Serious Relationship

They say that you can build a family with any man, the only difference is in the efforts put into it.

But is it worth marrying the first person you meet and then spending your whole life trying to either retrain him or adjust yourself?

There are people who are more suitable for serious relationships, and there are those who will always live their own lives, despite a house full of children.

And in the matter of finding a life partner, it is better to go the opposite way - clearly understand which men are not suitable as companions. And not waste your precious best years on them.

Mama's boy

Such representatives of the stronger sex are quite flexible, attentive in relationships. They quickly offer to live together, and immediately introduce you to their friends.

A sudden rush of emotions, promises of love until death, compliments, gifts and care - what could be nicer?

Difficulties begin later. At first with amazement, later with irritation you will begin to notice how the betrothed dances to her tune, and wants to force you to do the same. They will begin to compare you with your mother, and the comparisons will be and will remain not in your favor.

At the same time, minor attacks on self-esteem will begin. The man will gradually transform from a compliant cat into a tyrant.

In order to maintain psychological dependence on him, he may speak in a way that belittles your dignity.

It is unrealistic to change such a man. Here you need to ask him a question: either distance with your mother, or break up. 9 chances out of 10 that he will not choose you.

Incorrigible womanizer

To figure out whether a representative of the stronger sex is suitable for a serious relationship, do not lose sight of the number of his amorous victories.

Men who are prone to cheating or to multiple affairs at the same time do not change over time. They rarely become exemplary family men.

Men from families where parents divorced because of infidelity also fall into the category of "cheaters". It is difficult to stop a lover of cheating, and in general - if you are not yet in love, but are only evaluating a possible chosen one, look at whether his parents' family is prosperous. This can help predict the main difficulties that are likely to appear in a marriage with him.

Dependent

Men who are dependent on their mother/wife often suffer from other forms: addiction to alcohol, gambling, computer games.

For example, having lost at a casino, he immediately gets drunk. Having drunk, he tearfully begs his wife for money, showing his complete dependence.

The thing is that they tend to simply figure out representatives of the weaker sex who can be taken advantage of. If you are suitable for them, they can temporarily forget about their personal harmful hobbies and surround you with stunning attention and love.

Earlier we told you how to get rid of a bad streak in life .