Every woman wants to build a relationship with a strong and independent man, whom she can trust 100%. But isn't there a risk in this?
A man who is too self-confident can end up being a tyrant. Therefore, it is worth remembering a few phrases that directly show that a man is a tyrant and he values only himself.
"You shouldn't do this"
This phrase may sound like care, but often it hides the desire to control the partner. It is used to establish one's power and submission. Of course, many people may like it, but there are always limits.
"I know what's best for you":
Tyrants often think that they know better than others, that their opinions and desires are more important. This phrase demonstrates disrespect for the autonomy and independence of the partner.
"This is not what we talked about."
Used to control the conversation and steer it away from topics that might cause debate or disagreement. This is a strategy to maintain his power. It is also a way for a man to show that he was right.
"You don't understand"
This phrase humiliates the partner, denying her right to her own opinion and feelings. It is used to establish one's infallibility and superiority. Also, in this way, the tyrant can simply show incompetence and highlights weaknesses.
"You must obey"
A classic tyrant phrase that emphasizes his desire for control and submission. Used to create an atmosphere of submission and fear. When such words are spoken, the woman simply has no other options and is forced to make concessions.
"I said it was so, so it is so."
This statement reflects a reluctance to discuss and continue the dialogue. And how will a woman feel over time if she cannot express her opinion or somehow influence her partner?
"You don't deserve this"
This phrase asserts one's power and control over rewards and benefits. The tyrant tries to keep the partner under control by creating a sense of inferiority. Such words are sure to evoke unpleasant associations.
"You owe me this."
This phrase implies that the partner is obliged to fulfill the desires and demands. This is a manifestation of selfishness and a desire to suppress the will of the other.
It is important to ask a simple question: is a woman really obliged? The question is rhetorical, but every woman should answer it honestly.
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