When going on a first date, everyone wants it to go perfectly and have a continuation.
Therefore, it is worth remembering 7 typical mistakes women make that can ultimately be destructive.
Information overload
A first date is not the place to spill your whole life story. When sharing about yourself, it’s important to maintain a balance between frankness and mystery, leaving room for curiosity.
There is no point in overloading with information, it is better to listen to the man and draw conclusions about his life, habits and desires.
Excessive control
Wanting to control every aspect of a date can come across as an attempt to control the situation.
It is important to remember that a date is a shared journey, not a one-way excursion. The partner should also express themselves and contribute to the overall dialogue.
Negative attitude
Negative thinking can pollute the dating atmosphere and create a wall.
It is important to focus on the positive aspects of the date and aim for a pleasant and open conversation. And even if you don’t like the man, why show it? The first impression may be wrong.
Neglect of appearance
The first impression often depends on the appearance. It is important to choose stylish but comfortable clothes that will emphasize the style and figure. No matter who says it, but the appearance always plays a key role.
Insincerity
Fake smiles and made-up stories can be detected even on the first date.
What's the point of lying or telling ridiculous stories? A date has to make sense, otherwise why go on it?
Don't listen to a man
A date is not only an opportunity to talk about yourself, but also a chance to hear your partner's story.
It is important to listen carefully and ask questions if the situation allows. The worst thing you can do is tell him about yourself and go home.
Misplaced expectations
Expectations can create unnecessary stress and disappointment.
It is important to remember that the first date is just a step towards getting to know each other. And high expectations can ruin everything and cause disappointment.
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Expert: Elena Gutyro
