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Why Women Continue to Choose the Wrong Men: 3 Reasons
05.10.2024 05:10
Since childhood, girls dream of a prince on a white horse. What they get later brings disappointment.
Very often women attribute their bad luck to someone's evil eye and blame themselves for failure.
Unworthy men are not a sign of spoilage, but a consequence of psychological attitudes. In fact, everything has its own psychological reasons. What factors make indecisive ladies choose unworthy men again and again...
Fear of being alone
This phobia is reinforced by stereotypes that exist in society. If a woman is 25-30 and still unmarried, she already starts to get sideways glances. The situation only gets worse with age.
Sooner or later, there comes a time when a smart and attractive woman stops looking for the “hero of her novel” and ties herself legally to “the one who is left.” Simply because everyone demands marriage from her – from her parents to her colleagues at work.
But is it so bad to be an "old maid"? This status does not harm life and health. Therefore, it always makes sense to wait for a worthy one, without reacting to public provocations.
Moreover, quite a large number of women depend on men financially. That is why they endure. They endure for the sake of their paychecks, children, mortgages. But is it worth it to humiliate yourself by continuing a marriage with an unsuitable and unloved man?
Re-attraction
A person has the ability to repeat typical situations. He is drawn to the likeness of those people who have already been in life. Even if they are toxic scoundrels.
In other words, a woman subconsciously searches for and finds the same unsuccessful relationships as before. Also, a subconscious search for people with the same emotional traumas who are able to comfort and support occurs.
As a result, the woman experiences the same negative experiences over and over again. She gets confused and does not see any light.
Self-esteem is zero
Such a lady does not look for the best. She is glad that she got at least "third rate". Such an approach is the cause of most of life's problems. Do not underestimate yourself. Every person deserves respect and happiness.
It is important to stop comparing yourself to other women. The concepts of "beauty" and "sexiness" are very subjective.
Moreover, an imperfect appearance, an “unworthy” background or a lack of talent are not yet a reason to waste your life on unworthy people.
In practice, it will take years before an insecure woman begins to adequately assess her strengths and weaknesses.
It is important to understand that you only have one life – so there is no point in wasting it on things you don’t like and that bring energy devastation. As for toxic people – you should run away from them, and without looking back.
It's better to be alone than with just anyone
Finding a worthy man is a difficult and time-consuming task. It is worth stocking up on self-confidence, optimism and patience.
At least it's better to be alone than with someone who doesn't love or appreciate you. Good luck!
