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What is the secret of women's happiness?
30.11.2024 05:10
Every woman wants happiness in life, just like any other person, but what is this happiness?
For some - in children, for others - in love, for others - in money.
And every woman must firmly decide for herself what happiness is for her. And for this, it is necessary to know some aspects of real female happiness (so that there is something to choose from).
So let's take a look at those very secrets of female happiness!
Inside you
True happiness cannot be found from the outside, it must be first and foremost within the woman herself. This is her worldview, her self-esteem, her love and respect, first and foremost, for herself.
Without all this, you will never find true happiness in the "outside world". It is important to know and understand that if you do not love yourself, how can others love you?
But this is not self-admiration, not in any way! It is simply finding your true self, and this is the very first step to real female happiness. Every woman has those very features that are capable of causing love in others. You need to find these features in yourself and emphasize them, develop and multiply them.
To do this, it is important not only to look inside yourself more often, but also to clearly respond to the attitude of the people around you to your actions and thoughts.
"It's not hard to be known as a queen, it's hard to be one" - folk wisdom is always on point! To feel like a real woman inside means to gradually become one for everyone.
There should only be a worthy man nearby
Love is not only a huge force, but also the main "engine" of a woman's life, and we must make sure that this engine does not fail in difficult life situations. And it should be exactly like this, and no other way.
Although they say that in love you can't command your heart, but we can command our mind to make the right choice. And to do this, we need to look inside ourselves again and understand what qualities of a man we will need in our lives. A prince on a white horse is, of course, good and beautiful, but real life is far from a rainbow fairy tale!
He must not only be faithful and gentle, caring and smart, he must definitely be the one, the only one, with whom “in sorrow and in joy.”
Looking for a man by the size of his wallet or by his position in society is quite stupid, because in life everything changes and moves constantly. And tomorrow “that one” can lose both his money and his position, and the former happiness will turn into resentment and misunderstanding. Do not make mistakes and perhaps in the future you will not have to apologize to your husband.
But if the chosen one has that very "reliable shoulder" on which you can and should lean in any situation, then it doesn't matter at all whether he has a small belly or sparse hair on his head. The main thing is his reliability, this is real happiness! That's the whole secret of a woman's happiness.
There should always be “always,” but it’s better to forget about “never” completely
Only that woman can be truly happy who will see happiness in every little thing.
Getting hung up on negative thoughts, actions of others, criticizing everyone and everything around you is a sure path to unhappiness. But if you try to see the best in every action, look for and see a happy future in everything, then it will not take long to come.
Happiness can be anything! Smiles of people around her on the street because of her appearance, approval of colleagues at work, cute babble of a baby (even if not her own, but someone else's), the beauty of a flower given to her, a small compliment or a trifling gift from a loved one - all this is happiness. And it depends on the perception of the woman herself.
Happiness is easy to find for every woman, if you not only constantly notice it, but also give it to others. It's like a boomerang - whatever you throw, comes back to you, and you should always remember this.
There is a simple truth - if you want to be happy, then be it always! And you should not wait for someone to give you this happiness just like that, you need to give it yourself, look for it and find it, and every day, in everything!
So the secret of women's happiness is simple, and there is no need to invent anything!
For reference
Happiness is a state that corresponds to the greatest internal satisfaction with the conditions of one’s existence, the fullness and meaningfulness of life, the fulfillment of one’s calling, and self-realization.
