What are the disadvantages of women that men see but don’t talk about?

03.10.2024 05:10

Every woman tries to look perfect in the eyes of her chosen one. But still, men see some female shortcomings.

They just tactfully keep silent about them in order to give the fair sex the opportunity to show off their best side.

So, let's look at some of the flaws that men notice in women.

A few extra pounds

An eternal topic for women is excess weight! Yes, men immediately notice that their other half is gaining weight. And if everything is fine in the relationship, and the woman's weight gain is only "plus", then the man will not mention it.

Moreover, a woman can scare herself in this matter more than the comments of a gentleman. Therefore, a wise man, in order not to provoke a woman into a loud scandal or a break in relations, will remain silent.

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Sloppiness

At the beginning of a relationship, a man practically does not pay attention to this. Since he finds a huge number of excuses for such an appearance of his chosen one: from hard work to a sleepless night before a date.

But when the "rose-colored glasses" fall, the man faces a difficult choice: to remain silent or to say directly that the woman has problems with taste. And they prefer to choose the first option, since sloppiness in clothing can be justified by the lady's style.

But if sloppiness manifests itself in everyday life, then this will become a reason for numerous quarrels and breakups.

Excessive love for fashion

There is such a “cute” feature of some representatives of the fair sex: to follow every fashionable novelty and immediately buy it, use it in their appearance.

On the one hand, this may seem very interesting: some girls manage to create very elegant looks by mixing past and new designer collections.

On the other hand, such behavior of the lady simply “screams” that she will not tolerate her gentleman criticizing such a “hobby”. It is also worth noting that excessive love for fashion very clearly indicates large expenses.

On the third hand, some ladies begin to literally demand that their gentleman “bring himself into a divine appearance” and at least somewhat correspond to the image of a fashionable socialite.

In these situations, the man tactfully remains silent so as not to provoke an extra scandal. But this happens exactly until the woman begins to hint at "sponsoring" her purchases.

Wearing glasses

A large number of women consider wearing glasses a significant disadvantage that interferes with building relationships. It's all about stereotypes, in which a quiet and modest girl - a "gray mouse" necessarily wears awkward glasses.

But it is worth noting that the modern market offers a sufficient number of models that turn glasses into a stylish accessory. Moreover, stylishly matched glasses to your image will help you to win the attention of an interested man much faster.

Therefore, it is worth understanding that representatives of the stronger sex are silent about this shortcoming only because they consider it a kind of “highlight” in the image of a lady.

Mercantile nature

Here everything is quite clear. A man can calmly listen to a lady, mentally evaluate her requests and simply part ways politely. At the same time, forgetting her phone number, name and address. No man will openly tell a woman that she is overly mercantile or greedy.

This happens for only one reason: most often, men are very interested in seeing how far such a lady can go in her dreams.

Yes, it's not a very honest entertainment. But it's even more offensive to the man himself. Who would like to perceive themselves as a wallet or a credit card, which is only needed to satisfy women's needs?

Author: Valeria Kisternaya Editor of Internet resources

Content
  1. A few extra pounds
  2. Sloppiness
  3. Excessive love for fashion
  4. Wearing glasses
  5. Mercantile nature