These Are Not Serious Intentions: What Men's Actions Should Not Be Trusted

11.01.2024 17:10

After the third date, you can already understand whether a man wants to build a relationship with his passion or not.

Naturally, a woman wants to know if her boyfriend is serious about her.

It seems that his actions show his interest in the young lady. But how can you know that this is true and not a lie? What actions of a man do not indicate the seriousness of his intentions?

The man throws money around and courts beautifully

It seems that he is a dream man: he plans a joint vacation with his passion, perhaps he has already taken her somewhere, introduces her to expensive restaurants, showers her with flowers and gifts, and makes all his companion’s dreams come true.

If a woman did not receive such attention in her previous relationships, she may even lose her head from communicating with a gentleman.

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The fair sex even thinks that if a man courts her like this, it means he is really serious about her.

But, unfortunately, this is not always the case. Perhaps a man is trying to create the illusion of closeness with a woman with the help of grand gestures and expensive gifts.

It may just be a narcissist who is "love bombing" his partner.

Such people easily see the needs of a woman and try to achieve admiration and adoration from her.

It doesn't matter what a woman prefers to receive in a relationship: support or material courtship, a man will give her all of this. He will truly make a woman the happiest.

But at the same time, the narcissist does not behave this way in order to give his companion positive emotions; in this way, he tries to manipulate her.

Soon such a person either disappears without even saying goodbye to his beloved, or takes control of the woman’s life and becomes a real despot.

Wants to introduce a woman to his loved ones

Of course, it seems to a woman that if a man wants to introduce her to his entire family, it means he sees her as his future wife.

Unfortunately, the woman does not know whether the man also brought other women to his home and introduced them to his inner circle.

Perhaps this is the custom in his family, his parents and friends know about all his affairs. In this case, the woman should not delude herself, because it will not cost the man anything to introduce her to his loved ones and invite her to a family dinner.

Perhaps the man simply values the opinion of his family, and that is why he shows the woman to his parents and friends so that they can appreciate her and give the man their approval for a relationship with her.

And if those close to him are not delighted, perhaps the man will even stop calling his beloved, no matter that he really liked her.

A man says that he is serious about a woman

Yes, a man can even say that he dreams of finding a stable and permanent relationship and even starting a family, but his words should not always be believed.

Some men are so burdened by their loneliness that they are ready to enter into any relationship that looms on the horizon.

If a woman doesn’t know her boyfriend well yet, she should be wary and not rejoice that a new man has come into her life.

If a man doesn’t give any specifics, but simply says, “We’ll move in together and live happily,” then most likely he himself doesn’t know what he wants.

While a woman is just getting to know a man, she should not make any serious and long-term plans with him.

In a relationship, people should gradually get to know each other, and if a man does not agree with this, then he is behaving childishly and does not understand how healthy and adult relationships are actually built.

Perhaps a man really dreams of a family, but he just wants to change his status, and not make his other half truly happy. He just wants to live with someone, and not build a harmonious relationship with a woman.

Earlier we talked about what to do if your partner has cheated .

Author: Valeria Kisternaya Editor of Internet resources

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  1. The man throws money around and courts beautifully
  2. Wants to introduce a woman to his loved ones
  3. A man says that he is serious about a woman