Family life is of particular value to women. But despite this, they talk a lot of unnecessary things. As a result, harmony in marriage is disrupted.
Many wives know sensitive topics that should not be discussed with their husbands. And yet they bring them up.
If you remember these phrases forever, you will avoid many scandals.
There is no point in voicing these words. They set a person up for negativity. Believe me, your man will immediately remember some unpleasant story related to childhood. For example, when he did something naughty and his parents scolded him afterwards.
Do you need to ask your spouse something? Or consult with him? Start a dialogue without a preface. Change your tone so that it does not sound like a commander. A man should feel like an independent person, worthy of respect, and not a guilty boy.
Why did you get involved with this man at all? You consider him an inveterate womanizer and a rogue, but you live with him under the same roof. How is this possible? You need to be confident in your chosen one and not suspect him of cheating on you every day.
Maybe he doesn't show his feelings? Try to hint to your husband that tenderness and affection have never hurt a couple. He will probably respond to your offer. In any case, he will be pleased to know that you miss his touches and compliments.
Is your man hiding a shocking detail from you? In that case, he will go berserk when he hears your statement. Is he crystal honest? Your husband will still be angry with you for such mistrust.
Accept this fact: you won't be able to get to the truth in any case. There will be a scandal, you will burst into tears, and your husband will think about many things. And it's good if he doesn't decide to cheat on you for real. You know, a man's pride needs to be satisfied.
Romantic, isn't it? Unfortunately, men are disgusted by such romance. Thoughts in their heads flow in a continuous stream. It is extremely difficult to choose the most important thought to voice to a clingy woman.
Maybe you think that he thinks about you and your wonderful relationship every second? No, he is also interested in more global topics: the structure of the Universe, the future, space, ancient civilizations, politics, sports and technology.
"My friend Oksana got a new red car, and Yulia just returned from France, and Veronica and Sergey finished a major renovation of the living room and bathroom."
Why does your companion need such details? Do all these people really interest him? It is unlikely that he has sympathy for your friends and acquaintances.
Are you trying to push him to take serious action in this way? We are talking about repairs, vacation, buying a new car. You can't come up with a more transparent hint.
Men prefer to be told everything directly, without hints and veiled phrases. You can hint to your chosen one a hundred times, but he still won't understand you.
Perhaps it is better not to finish this phrase. It is obvious that the continuation will not interest the chosen one.
At best, he will pretend he didn't hear anything. Don't remind your life partner about your ex-lovers if you don't want to provoke a strong negative reaction. And don't call your ex-boyfriends losers and slobs.
Believe me, no one likes people who gossip about others. Today they will discuss a bad boss with a colleague, and tomorrow they will criticize the same colleague for bad work. Do you really want to earn a reputation as a gossip and lose your husband's trust? No? Then keep your mouth shut if you do not want to awaken male solidarity in your chosen one.
Not every man will be able to give the correct answer to such a question.
Trust the scales and the reflection in the mirror. Don't torment your husband, leave the poor guy alone. He hasn't left you? It turns out his love hasn't gone anywhere. The man accepts your shortcomings as a given.
Men are not good at giving such advice. Fashion designers, salespeople and, of course, girlfriends are better at understanding things.
Call on a fashionista you know to help you. Ask her to go shopping with you, the girl will be happy about this request.
And you are guaranteed to buy yourself a stunning outfit for a cultural event.
And leave your man alone. After the second store, he will agree to buy you the first tunic he comes across, so that you will leave him alone. Shopping is a real torment for the strong half of humanity!
Earlier we talked about impulsive actions .
