Should I get back together with my ex? A question that worries many
Oddly enough, but contrary to assumptions, most people return to their exes and often live happily ever after.
This is caused not only by attachment, but also by a certain anchor on a subconscious level, when relationships last a long time, people get used to each other, become literally family, and it is often quite difficult to part with family.
If you look at the phrase: "People don't change", you can conclude that going back to your ex is a bad option. However, couples who took the risk say that their loved one changed after the breakup.
It may seem to the partner that no one will love him like that; they thought about it and decided that they made a mistake in the relationship; they left, but the feelings did not go away; they looked at the relationship from the outside and realized that everything was not so bad.
After a breakup, a person feels lost. But some people like freedom.
A couple of months pass, maybe several partners appear, but the feeling that something is wrong does not go away. The new relationship does not bring the same thrill, and the former lover cannot get out of your head.
It's great if the ex-partner still has the same feelings, then people agree to meet and more often - renew the relationship.
In the end, everyone decides for themselves. It is recommended to discuss previous mistakes with your partner in a friendly atmosphere and come to a compromise. Psychologists say that such couples become even stronger.
As a rule, they have common goals and dreams, and if such a couple gets back together, it means they can be wisely distributed and implemented.
The old passion returns, both in relationships and in bed, new experiments and emotions.
In the future, such couples have only two paths: either they break up forever, understanding that there is no way back, or the partners take full responsibility for each other, make decisions together and set new goals together. In the second case, the probability that the couple will break up again is extremely small.
More often than not, such couples demonstrate strong affection, complete mutual understanding, and the partners soften towards each other, while jealousy is more of an exception to the rule.
After all, the thought that they were chosen again warms them and gives them confidence.
Of course, you will have to make the decision to get back together or not on your own. Sometimes it is better to leave without looking back into a new happy life.
We previously reported on how manipulators use lies to easily deceive others.
