Your family had to face serious difficulties.
Your marriage failed the test of strength: your husband brazenly ran away from you to his new passion.
But, not even a month had passed since he returned to his home. There is hope in your soul: from now on everything will be fine, we will live in perfect harmony, as before!
Wives who forgive their traitorous spouses make an irreparable mistake – they hope to resurrect the marriage and return it to its original state. Don’t try to reassure yourself: the past can’t be returned!
Your relationship, unfortunately, has been enriched by new painful experiences. This means that you and your husband will have to face inevitable changes. The marriage may fall apart completely, or, on the contrary, strengthen. As they say, everything is in your hands!
What surprises should you prepare for if you decide to reunite with your cheater?
As soon as your lustful husband packed his things and slammed the door, leaving to go to his mistress, you quickly began to make a plan that would help you return your other half to the family.
You bored his friends with your annoying calls, you tearfully asked them to convince the traitor to leave his new lover and come back to you. But you didn't stop there.
You have stooped to scandals and demands, you have constantly reminded the traitor that he has obligations. We are talking about minor children who need their father's attention, love and financial assistance.
You sought meetings with his beloved woman to shame her for her vile behavior. Your numerous efforts were not in vain: the husband opened the door with his key and settled back in the old family nest.
It was you who desperately wanted reconciliation, not him, so from now on you will play by his rules. You will have to prove that your chosen one committed a great stupidity by leaving you for another.
You will learn to cook new, more delicious dishes, you will become his fighting girlfriend, you will bring many of his erotic fantasies to life. In general, you will begin to win his love with new strength.
In addition, your elated spouse will understand that he is the absolute master. That's when he will start twisting you around his finger. Be prepared to meet his inflated demands and prove your devotion to him every day. His demands will start growing by leaps and bounds. Will you be able to withstand such a test?
The man lived with his mistress for a while and suddenly realized that this step was a huge mistake. The thing is that the affair with his new passion - so bright and attractive - turned into ordinary everyday difficulties and a complete routine. But he believed that the fairy tale would last forever.
But the reality is that in life with another woman, the man was faced with many demands, responsibilities and restrictions that he so wanted to say goodbye to forever.
The most interesting thing is that he realized that you were a more caring, careful and responsible wife than your mistress. The man, naturally, admitted that he was wrong and crawled back.
During this period of time, you have felt what it is like to be left without a husband. Maybe, in the few months of your husband's absence, you have acquired an admirer and your own vision of your future life.
Consider this: Is your old spouse a good fit for your new future? Does it make sense to maintain this marriage? Are the reasons compelling enough?
Then you really should make peace with the cheater. But you must explain to your spouse that now your relationship will continue to coexist in accordance with new rules - those that suit both of you.
Identify the things you will never put up with again. Since your spouse has made the decision to return to his family and has realized the seriousness of his mistakes (cheating and subsequent departure), you are now the mistress of the situation, not him. Remember this and use your advantages. Just don't go overboard!
It has previously become known how manipulators use lies to easily deceive others.