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How to Understand That Your Wife Is "Hanging You Under Her Heel": 6 Signs
30.09.2024 05:10
It is difficult, and sometimes even impossible, to understand what is going on in someone else’s family.
But it is still possible to try to untangle the tangle of marital relationships.
Now think about whether your wife is going too far when communicating with you? Is she trying to bend you to her will?
Maybe you've become henpecked but haven't realized it yet?
Your wife decides many issues without consulting you.
It would seem that you discuss many issues together, but she makes the final decision alone.
Perhaps your wife doesn’t like to think for herself and spin like a squirrel in a wheel.
Perhaps you are so lacking in initiative that she has no other choice. In this case, we are not talking about bossiness and stubbornness.
However, the truth is undeniable: you do not protest or take initiative. You are apparently satisfied with everything.
You don't want to be henpecked? Prove it to your spouse - defend your position and set certain conditions for her.
Your wife is preventing you from communicating with your friends.
You are practically deprived of friendly communication. Only occasionally do you manage to break away to your friends.
Work takes up all your time. You need to work more because you are a family man.
Surely, before the appearance of your chosen one, you often relaxed with friends and did not look for any excuses.
Do you want to be an exemplary family man? Or are you afraid to challenge your wife? It seems that you are really “under her thumb”.
Want to get out of this "hole"? Tell your chosen one that you will spend the whole day at your friend's garage.
Her answer will open your eyes to the truth. You will quickly find out whether your spouse respects you or not.
Your wife buys things for you herself
The chosen one does not need your presence. Moreover, she is not interested in your opinion.
For all holidays you receive clothes as a gift. Your caring wifey pleases you with shirts, panties, pants, socks and ties. What a variety!
But not everything is so smooth - she chooses gifts for you according to her own tastes. She doesn't care about your preferences.
According to your wife, you are a simpleton who doesn’t know how to dress.
She makes you wear shirts and pants you hate. No matter that you've been into T-shirts and sweatpants since you were a kid.
Your lot is hard, but there's nothing you can do about it. You can't throw away the generous gifts of your life partner!
Your wife manages the family budget without your participation
You don't even know what her salary is. Besides, your wife hides all her expenses from you.
You are content with the food she buys and cooks, ironed clothes and clean bed linen. You do not contradict your spouse.
It seems you have forgotten about your pocket money, but in vain.
It looks like your faithful wife doesn't deny herself anything.
She manages her money and yours. You get mere crumbs. What are you working for?
To sit without money? This is no good!
Forget about shyness and modesty, ask your wife for an expense report. If she throws a fit, it means she benefits from leading you on. Put your chosen one in her place or you will remain henpecked forever!
Your wife often gets angry and sulks at you
Harboring a grudge, she stops communicating with you. This silence usually lasts from several days to a week.
You have to go for reconciliation because she is as unapproachable as a rock.
This case is so ridiculous that it resembles a joke. Your wife does not need serious reasons to quarrel with you.
She gets worked up for no reason. Even if you become an ideal husband, she will still be dissatisfied with something.
Apologize to her, grovel at her feet, give her flowers. You have no other choice. No one is to blame for the fact that you chose a tough and unyielding wife.
The wife feels like a full-fledged leader in your union
Her lack of ceremony allows her to be rude and answer you rudely, calling you names.
Do you think that your wife is very tired and that is why she is so angry? Not at all! She simply does not respect you one bit.
This woman thinks that she can do anything. She knows that you won't yell at her or raise your hand.
It turns out that you can do whatever your heart desires. And most importantly, you don’t have to bear responsibility for your base actions and antics.
