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How to understand that a man does not love a woman anymore
14.10.2024 05:10
Any woman strives to build a relationship for many years. But, unfortunately, love cannot always be saved.
Sometimes it happens that a man falls in love with another lady. And after that he breaks up with his former partner.
So, let's look at some signs that help you understand that a man no longer loves a woman.
The man has stopped doing something for the sake of his beloved woman or does it only after numerous requests.
The most obvious fact that feelings have at least “cooled down” is that the man has stopped doing things for the attention and smile of his “lady of the heart”.
And if this woman asks to do something, then she has to pretend to be a fly that buzzes and buzzes near the man’s ear.
And he, with a very eloquent expression on his face (you can read the expression: "Okay, I'll do it just so you leave me alone"), will get down to doing the job. Only the woman herself will not want to ask him to do something again. Because the emotional "sediment" will remain.
Aggression and rudeness appeared
But this sign clearly shows that there is no more love, not even a tiny bit of respect in the couple. How is this expressed?
A man allows himself to be rude, insulting and caustic towards a woman he once loved. At the same time, the negativity can be shown in the presence of a large number of people.
One of the most severe and cruel examples of such a sharp transformation is the comparison of a woman with others: girlfriends, neighbors, friends' wives, colleagues, and so on.
And all comparisons are not in favor of the partner. And the man will not care what happened before, or how much he offended his lady. Rather, the question will be put differently: “Don’t like what I’m saying? Fine. Then let’s go our separate ways!”
Quarrels and conflicts can easily escalate into fights.
Clarifying relationships in a couple is a normal process. Many experts even call it useful, since quarrels help to get to know each other better and find a compromise in difficult decisions.
But if the conflict intuitively evokes the fear of receiving serious physical injuries (although this was never even close before!), then this is already a very, very alarming sign.
In other words, subconsciously you have already distanced yourself from your man, and in any quarrel you perceive him as a real opponent, and not as a person with whom you can come to an agreement.
Relationships with others are much better
What can best show a man's attitude towards you? This is a simple observation of his behavior. If you notice that your dear husband is very polite and courteous with others, and only with you allows himself to make negative statements, then this is already a reason to think about the strength of the relationship.
After all, no loving man would act in such a way as to hurt his beloved woman! Or somehow humiliate her in public. Therefore, it is worth simply observing how exactly a man behaves with people around him.
Trying to provoke a divorce on your part
The most unpleasant thing that can happen in a relationship is when a man tries with all his might to provoke his ex-lover into a divorce.
That is, to make it so that she would be the one to initiate the breakup, and he would remain “white and fluffy” in the eyes of the public.
After all, in such a case, all mutual friends and acquaintances will most likely support the “unfortunate” man. And the woman will be strongly criticized, morally pressured, and spread unpleasant gossip behind her back.
This is further proof that all feelings have passed and there is no trace of respect.
The only thing that can be advised here is to see things through to the end. And at the same time "filter" your social circle. Why do you need those who are ready to judge you just because someone said something?
