How to Stop Pushing Men Away: 9 Phrases Women Say When They Don't Value Themselves
24.09.2024 05:10
All representatives of the fair sex want to receive love and admiration from men.
But here's what's interesting - some ladies hate their figure and appearance, doubt their mental abilities and talents. They instill various complexes in themselves every day.
Looking in the mirror, they call themselves ugly, fat and silly. And this negative self-hypnosis works - men begin to notice all the shortcomings declared by the ladies. As a result, the gentlemen run away.
What phrases should you get rid of? What should you not call yourself?
"I am a real monster!"
You will not become a written beauty in the near future if you continue to list your shortcomings. There are no uniform parameters of beauty, everyone decides for themselves who they consider beautiful. Perhaps for someone you are the ideal of beauty.
Not long ago, the entire globe was ridiculing the customs and habits of African tribes. What's funny about them?
The fact is that dark-skinned women use rings to lengthen their necks, insert wooden discs into their ears, stretch their lips with clay plates, and blacken their teeth.
Today, many young people are crazy about tunnels in their ears and cheeks, piercings, tattoos, skyces. These are modern tastes and needs. Stop scolding yourself, you are unique! Many girls are worse than you, but this does not prevent them from being proud of themselves.
"I'm as fat as an elephant!"
Don't you like the folds on your stomach and sides? Do you look down on your big butt and chubby cheeks? Run to the gym without fear or excuses.
In fact, this phrase is often said by slender, pretty girls. You see, they need six-pack abs and toned legs!
Not all men are crazy about sporty girls. Remember this! Some prefer lovely plump or curvy ladies.
You may miss out on your happiness if you lose a lot of weight or pump up your muscles in your favorite places.
"I doubt your love"
If you are not confident in your partner's feelings, then you have problems with self-esteem. You doubt yourself first of all. Remember this!
Don't complicate your relationship with your loved one. Stop asking stupid questions and talking nonsense. Many men live by the principle: "I will not remain silent in case of any changes."
"I can't learn this"
Trained animals perform incredible circus tricks and amaze spectators with their agility. Do you think a horse, a monkey, a dog has more intelligence and talent than you? You are a sensible and smart woman. Believe in yourself and be more active.
Make attempts after attempts, leave fear behind. Yes, you will not succeed the first time, but you will learn to fight and see things through to the end. In addition, your confidence level will increase significantly.
"Certainly!"
Use this word only at your own discretion. Don't agree with everything, don't nod your head like an obedient girl. You don't want to do something? Firmly refuse the person and that's it!
People around you must understand that you value yourself, your knowledge, skills and time. Do it now, don't put it off. Otherwise, you will never be respected and loved.
"I dream of being like her!"
Admire beautiful women to your heart's content. There is nothing wrong with that. Strive for the secret image that you consider ideal. Just please, follow your own path, not someone else's. Don't try to become an exact copy of a famous person. Your individuality is too valuable to sacrifice.
"I won't say anything!"
Women who can quickly shut up at the right moment are priceless. It is pleasant and easy to communicate with them. But you need to understand what situation requires silence from you, and what requires active responses and remarks.
Don't remain silent when the other person is waiting for your reaction. The same applies to discussions, arguments, conflicts and discussions of difficult topics.
If you keep your mouth shut, you'll be known as a silent and cold-blooded fish. And as we all know, people like that are boring.
"I deserve hatred and contempt!"
Don't justify your offenders and enemies. They are all terrible people. At least because they hurt you and humiliated you.
Remember: people around you will never respect you if you don't love yourself. Agree, it's stupid to drag yourself into the dirt and defend your enemies. Smart women don't do that. Follow their example.
"I failed to give him true happiness"
This phrase is often heard from the lips of ladies who are worried about breaking up with their lovers.
Have you realized that you haven't given your chosen one a lot? Great, move forward. The experience you've gained will come in handy in your next relationship.
Don't scold yourself, fate has separated you. Surely this man didn't want to be with you. Otherwise, he wouldn't have given up so easily. Take care of your happy future. Everything will work out well if you put in the effort and effort!