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How to Avoid Mistakes in Relationships: Advice for Couples
21.10.2024 05:10
Building a relationship between a man and a woman is painstaking work. At first, the relationship takes on a romantic plot.
Flowers, gifts, dates, compliments, kisses. But when young people start living together, a number of obstacles often arise along the way.
Each person is accustomed to living by their own rules, observed the relationship between parents, and embodied certain principles.
But when you are building your own family, you should make concessions more often, be more tolerant, look for common ground, listen to each other and come to an agreement.
Criticism and blaming of a partner
There is no perfect person in every sense. Everyone has shortcomings, but also advantages. At the stage of falling in love, a person does not notice the shortcomings of a partner, he seems ideal to him, but when living together, the shortcomings are obvious.
You shouldn’t immediately criticize and blame your partner for doing something wrong, putting something in the wrong place.
It is worth sitting down at the negotiating table and in a calm atmosphere loyally voicing what you are not happy with, how you would like to see it. This will be effective.
Constant lie
A little lie creates an ocean of mistrust. Everyone knows these words, but despite everything, partners sometimes lie to each other, afraid that they will not be understood. But when the truth comes out, that's where the problem begins.
To avoid this mistake, try to tell the truth. If you convey the information correctly, you will be heard and you will not have to lie. Lies alienate people, mistrust arises, and this will subsequently lead to the fading of love and happiness.
Excessive attention
Every person is essentially free. Everyone has the right to personal space and time. And even if you are in a relationship, you do not need to "smother" your partner with constant calls, attention and control.
Sometimes, for balance, you need to spend some time alone with yourself, read your favorite book or turn off your phone. And this will not mean that you are no longer loved. Excessive attention can be irritating and repulsive.
Lack of respect
We all have the right to be respected, and we must respect each other in return. When arguing, you need to watch your language and not throw around caustic and degrading words.
After a short time, you will make peace, but your partner will still remember those unflattering words that were said to him.
Try not to hurt each other. After all, even if love has passed, the relationship can be saved by respecting each other.
Saving money
Since time immemorial, it has been the case that a man gives a woman, albeit a small, surprise, a sign of attention.
At the stage of falling in love, it is natural, a man wants to prove himself in order to win the girl's heart. But when it comes to serious relationships, sometimes the money issue arises.
The man turns into a miser. And even with considerable wealth, he is greedy, counts every penny spent.
A man should be generous, not stingy, because even a little attention will inspire a woman, and she will do much more for her beloved.
Also in relation to women, it is worth noting that you should not, having entered into a relationship, save on yourself. This repels men.
Invest in yourself, don't get hung up on everyday life. A man immediately identifies a woman as an economy class. And you yourself will be pleased to look at yourself in the mirror with a beautiful haircut and in good clothes.
Saving on everything and greed irritates and repels partners.
To ensure that your relationship does not become obsolete, but brings joy and harmony, try to avoid a number of mistakes.
