How to arrange your personal life for those who have tried everything

02.04.2024 17:10

One person feels bad. And even if it feels good, it is temporary.

There will come a time when discomfort arises: boredom, fear, a feeling of loneliness, a lack of opportunity to express yourself.

The degree of suffering people experience on this matter varies, depending on their communication skills, level of spirituality, depth of inner world, ability to accept reality and other factors.

It is not for nothing that the phrase “It is not good for the man to be alone” was written in the Bible (Genesis 2:18).

Let's say, but what if it doesn't work out no matter how hard you try? There is no suitable person, or the relationship turns out to be toxic and destructive. You search, but the next attempt brings pain and devastation?

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Here's what you need to do first:
1. Ask for forgiveness. Remember who on this planet can hold a grudge against you? For a trifle or a serious offense - it doesn't matter, admit your guilt and ask for forgiveness.
2. Forgive. Even if you were hurt, betrayed, do not bury your happy future under the weight of this burden. Forgive everyone from the bottom of your heart!
3. Pay off debts. Did you take something and not return it? Promised something and not return it? By violating the law of balance in this way, you slow down the change of stages of life, the arrival of something new.
4. Learn to be happy here and now, because couples are created when you are ready to share positive emotions. And for this you need to be in a resourceful state.
5. Give thanks. You have a lot to say thank you for: your loved ones, family, friends, children. Remember the happy moments of your life and keep these feelings.

And only after such self-tuning can you begin searching for your “other half”. Love and harmony to you!

Previously, it was reported what divorced women regret.

Author: Valeria Kisternaya Editor of Internet resources