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"Everything Annoys Me!": What Should a Person Do If Everything Annoys Him?
04.07.2024 05:10
Irritability is the scourge of modern times.
All people constantly experience this feeling, and some do not even pay attention to it, saying that life has become hard, everyone survives as best they can, how can one not be angry, especially if there is not enough money and you have to take out loans.
But such reasoning is very naive, because it cannot be normal for people to be angry with those around them every day.
It all starts with little things: being pushed on public transport, being rude in a queue, having an argument with a colleague or boss.
Gradually, all this negativity spreads to the closest ones: parents, children, spouses. Because of this, families break up, and people just shrug their shoulders and blame anyone but themselves.
In fact, it is not so difficult to fight irritability. The main thing is to want it and believe in yourself. After all, no one wants to live in constant tension and expect a trick.
Secretly, everyone dreams of peace and quiet, as well as personal and financial stability. Once the first step is taken, everything is much easier.
Change the environment
It doesn't have to be moving to another city or country, or getting married again. It should start with simpler things, like work.
This is where a person spends most of their time, so the work they do should bring not only money, but also joy. Sitting and waiting for the end of the working day, or the end of the week, or annual leave is actually bad. You can't work that much. So it would be nice to decide what you really want, because in reality, 90% of people hate their jobs.
Maybe it's worth taking a step forward and getting out of this swamp of negative emotions? The main problem is that few people dare to do this, but prefer to remain silent and endure. It is not surprising that irritation becomes chronic and flows into outright anger.
Learn to switch off and relax
Unfortunately, this is also a widespread problem, because people are used to only earning money, denying themselves good food and quality housing, not to mention rest.
A trip to the seaside is still an unrealizable dream for many people, because they have not paid off their mortgage, are taking out another loan for a car or a refrigerator, or are caring for elderly relatives.
And the idea of going on vacation is perceived as bourgeois, like, all this is entertainment for the rich, and "we are poor". There is no need to engage in such self-abasement and to humiliate both your own and family interests. Working is great, but you also need to distract yourself.
Find a hobby
This could be knitting, drawing, going to the theatre, creativity, or attending hobby groups.
Thus, irritability is not a diagnosis. It can be successfully fought, but the main thing is that a person understands and realizes this.
Living in constant stress is harmful to health: some people develop rashes, others feel pain in the heart area, not to mention migraines.
Unbalanced individuals often become patients of a neurologist or cardiologist, or even a psychiatrist.
Therefore, the right way out of the situation will be a decision to change not only your character, but your whole life. It is never too late to become happy.
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