A child's tantrum is always a difficult test for a parent's nervous system.
It is not always possible to cope with the nervous state of your child, no matter what tricks you use.
However, psychologists have discovered a way to stop a child's tantrum in just five seconds.
The trick lies in the question you, as a parent, should ask your worried son or daughter.
Ask your child during a tantrum, "Is this a small, medium, or big problem?"
Ask this question while looking your child in the eye, remove all irritating elements from your field of vision and put aside serious matters.
Let your child see that you are truly engaged in the conversation and not trying to get rid of him and what is bothering him.
It is also extremely important to ensure that your tone remains as calm as possible. Do not allow even a drop of irritation or anger to seep into it.
Otherwise, the trick won't work and your child will think you were trying to trick him.
Earlier we talked about how to learn to enjoy failures and mistakes .