8 Important Principles Smart Women Follow: Note for Men
Today there are all kinds of trainings for the fair half of humanity.
Every woman can become beautiful, smart, successful and determined. But the most important thing is to be wise.
Wise women are very similar to shining, light fairies. They are able to create a real miracle with the help of a magic wand called “wisdom”.
Let's highlight the main principles of smart ladies.
1. Wise women always put their own views first. That's why they don't pay attention to other people's opinions.
They understand that there is no point in jumping out of their pants. This will not cause universal sympathy and approval. There will always be an individual who will be angered by many actions of a successful person. A skeptic will negatively evaluate the work of an individual, an envious person will throw mud at her, a critic will speak unflatteringly about her behavior and manners. Smart ladies adhere to this rule: there is nothing more important than your own point of view. The statements of ill-wishers are just dust.
2. Wise women do not expect gratitude and kindness in return from others.
The world is big, amazing and complex. There are both highly moral and immoral people in it. Wise women with personal principles and worldview know this very well.
However, trivial and frequent cases do not force them to classify people as bad. Smart ladies understand that not everyone lives according to universal norms and rules. Perhaps that is why they are not disappointed in others when they behave unworthy and ungrateful. Women assume such an outcome.
3. Wise women try to surround themselves with good people and pleasant things. They focus on the positive.
Positive people have plenty of optimistic friends. Pessimists have only whiners and desperate losers as friends. And that's in the best case. Some pessimists have to vegetate in solitude due to the lack of like-minded people.
Smart women know that thoughts materialize. That is why they do not imagine bad situations, events and consequences.
4. Wise women are not afraid that their lifestyle and actions will be condemned.
Evil tongues will happily wash the bones of even such ladies. Yes, smart women are well-mannered, hard-working, modest and kind, but this does not change the essence. Nasty gossips will still gather in a secluded place and discuss them with special relish. The first ill-wishers will spread dirty rumors, the second will take them at face value and bring them to the ears of the third.
Smart ladies don't give a damn about their ill-wishers. It's enough for them to know their own knowledge about themselves. They don't go out of their way to convince their enemies. Great achievements and exemplary behavior have never saved anyone from gossip.
5. Wise women give people what they deserve.
If these ladies are betrayed or deceived, they will pay back the dishonest people in the same way. And smart ladies will not tolerate beatings - they will hit the offender hard in response.
They invariably defend their interests and rights in difficult situations.
But this does not mean that wise representatives of the weaker sex do not respond to good deeds. They willingly reflect the actions of those people who know how to cooperate and help selflessly.
6. Wise women are not impulsive. They do not give in to anger, do not blab under the influence of strong emotions.
They do not get into arguments. Smart ladies interrupt useless arguments in time or leave the “battlefield” altogether. They will not be kept late by their formidable bosses. These women know their rights very well. At the same time, they do not shout hysterically and do not aggravate their situation at work.
If they come across an aggressive and irrepressible opponent, the wise ladies will exhale, calm down and calmly continue the dialogue. As a result, everything will be resolved in their favor.
7. Wise women take on new things even when they are afraid of failure.
They treat their own fear differently. If it's scary, then it means you need to move, try, make an effort.
According to smart ladies, the feeling of fear cannot be called a protective reaction, warning a person from trouble. Fear is like a restraining mechanism. As a rule, it arises at the most inopportune moment. Instead of moving forward, a frightened individual turns back, losing a lot of opportunities.
But smart ladies are not cowardly. They know how to take smart risks. That's their hallmark.
8. Wise women do not follow any instructions.
Yes, they are not 100% sure that their decisions are correct. These ladies do not act according to a strict plan. Maybe that is why they are able to improvise and get out of the situation with their heads held high.
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