How to respond to an insult correctly

Insults are a clear way to show your hostility.

They can be thin but very sharp, essentially reminiscent of stilettos or thin needles that are guided by an experienced hand; and, conversely, they can be very rough, “clumsy”, evoking associations with conversations at the market and sorting out relations with one of the scandalous traders.

In any case, you need to be able to respond to insults correctly, without letting yourself be offended, but also without letting the offender go unpunished. Let's take a closer look at how this can be done.

Humor

Any insult has only one goal - to humiliate the interlocutor and to elevate the one who insults in the eyes of others.

One of the most effective techniques is to turn an insult into a joke. But you should do this carefully, knowing exactly how and what to say so that those around you can support you.

Ambiguity of phrases

The most common weapon in creating an insult is the ambiguity of phrases. The same sentence, even with the same tone, can be perceived as both an insult and as sympathy. But you can use this to your advantage.

Answer truthfully, but construct the sentence so that the interlocutor understands his loss. And note that when you give the answer, your tone should be soft and friendly, without caustic or lecturing notes.

It is also worth focusing on a very careful selection of words. Because sometimes the phrase itself can make a person shut up and swallow all the remaining insults.

If you doubt your art of constructing such ambiguous phrases, then pay attention to historical films about royal courts, the work of diplomats and intelligence officers. It is shown there very clearly and beautifully. This is especially true for women's dialogues.

Mat

"Heavy artillery" for those who do not want or cannot understand the answers in a more adequate formulation.

Unfortunately, there are people in the world who, apart from such harsh and unflattering verbal responses, do not perceive any information from the people around them. Yes, swearing is not the best option. But if a person does not understand, then there is no other way out...

But it should be noted that only those individuals who have already mentally prepared themselves for a fight can use swearing in a conversation. Therefore, before you answer, carefully assess the situation. Because after your answer, a fight may immediately begin.

Ignoring and silence

One of the most common techniques during insults, which helps to a large extent to save nerve cells, is silently ignoring the "source of the problem". But this technique should be used only if the situation allows it.

If you feel that ignoring will make the situation even worse, then it is better to respond.

To demonstrate the speaker's level of opinion

Insults are a negative message that is used to undermine a person's reputation and moral strength.

When responding to insults, you can use an assessment of the opinion of the person who said the insult: “If I valued your opinion on this issue, then I would be offended”, “If your words had any weight in our company, then I could be offended by your words”.

But be sure to watch your tone and facial expression! The tone should be calm and as friendly as possible. Without a hint of anger, rage, resentment or a desire to humiliate the interlocutor in response. By doing this, you will only “play into the hands” of the person and confirm his unflattering opinion of you!

The same goes for facial expressions – they should be calm and attentive. There may be small sparkles of amusement in your eyes, but it is best to refrain from this. Otherwise, those around you will think that you are already mocking your interlocutor.

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• 7 October 2024

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