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These Phrases Are Very Offensive: 5 Shameful Mistakes When Communicating with a Woman
08.02.2024 04:00
Updated: 12.05.2024 23:40
Unfortunately, not all men can convey the necessary information to their interlocutor beautifully and accurately with the help of words. Sometimes incorrectly constructed phrases greatly offend and repel girls.
Let's take a detailed look at 5 mistakes that men often make when communicating with the fair sex:
Burden your interlocutor with your problems
One of the most important mistakes! Sorry, but every lady has enough problems in her life. And if the problems are so serious, then it is worth turning to a professional. And not letting the woman understand how many problems there are and that the man cannot cope with them.
No matter how independent modern women are, one thing remains unchanged - a man must be a protector, a provider and a support.
If a candidate for a happy family life complains about his inability to solve problems, then let him not be surprised later that the lady does not want to have anything to do with him.
Trying to appear better than you actually are
Every man wants to show himself in the most favorable light to his chosen one. But when conversations revolve only around the positive sides of a man, it inspires boredom. And the woman will want to run away to another (less ideal).
Therefore, it is worth shifting the emphasis a little: talk about the achievements and hobbies of your chosen one. Do not be afraid to say what she surpasses you in, express your admiration for her talent, ask her to teach you this. Recognizing your weaknesses, willingness to learn and recognize the strengths of your partner today looks quite attractive.
Indecision in small matters
From the outside, a man's phrases may seem funny and cute (as in many romantic films and TV series): "Can I walk you home", "Can I hold your hand", and so on. But for most real women, these phrases cause slight stupor and bewilderment.
After all, in this way, a man creates for himself the image of an indecisive and infantile schoolboy - a teenager for whom parents must make decisions even in such matters.
So men, don't be surprised that after such questions a girl may look at you in surprise, turn around and leave silently. And not talk to you anymore.
To avoid such awkward situations, be more decisive. But without excessive impudence and assertiveness. The combination of these qualities can push a girl away more than insecurity.
Compliments
Giving a person words is both difficult and easy. After all, girls ask for compliments to be original (not everyone likes the hackneyed "You look good today" or "You are beautiful!").
The main thing is to honestly say what you like about the girl. Because when she asks for clarification, the man can colorfully describe her virtues. There is no need to lie or embellish much. Every girl at the beginning of a relationship will try to catch her partner in a lie.
Confession of your feelings
It is extremely difficult to say when it is worth telling honestly and openly about your feelings. After all, if you tell too early, the girl is unlikely to believe you and will look for a catch in your further actions and words.
She can simply turn the situation into a joke and forget about this confession. And if you delay the confession too much, there is a risk of becoming a "good and close friend." And eventually meet your girlfriend's lover.
Therefore, it is worth monitoring how the relationship is developing. And if you are ready to take a risk and say: "I love you" or "I really like you", then it is better to say it right away. This way you will immediately understand how the girl feels.
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