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Humiliating and offensive phrases for a man: what all women should know
03.02.2024 04:00
Updated: 12.05.2024 23:40
The article talks about words that humiliate and anger a man.
What phrases should you not say to a woman in order not to worsen the quarrel and save the relationship.
Sometimes in family relationships there are differences of opinion, misunderstandings and quarrels. This is normal for a healthy relationship, but in order not to aggravate the situation and the problem, a woman should know what mistakes should not be made.
"Darling, why are you silent? What are you thinking about?"
In a conflict situation, this phrase is very irritating and sometimes brings a man to a nervous peak. Most likely, his thoughts are about nothing or about something that a woman should not know in this case.
Don't bring the relationship to negative consequences, let both yourself and your husband cool down. And then, in a calm environment, discuss again what caused the quarrel, most likely the reason will turn out to be empty.
"Honey, don't you think I've gained weight or changed?"
Believe me, he doesn't imagine it, some women ask such questions to boost their self-esteem.
Even if there are changes in appearance, the answer will be false, since a man will not intentionally offend, and if he loves, he will find a way to motivate his woman.
Such remarks irritate the young man, most likely he will want to be alone or leave for a while, so as not to make a problem out of nothing.
"You're not a man"
Don't hurt a man's pride and ego, no matter what the argument is. Such a phrase can provoke a backlash against a woman, no matter how much he doesn't want it. That is, make a mirror and insult your other half.
Also, with such an offensive remark, the wife develops complexes and internal experiences in the man.
His work may fail, and in communication with other people he becomes a withdrawn and insecure person.
"And here is my previous lover..."
This is a phrase of a stupid and mentally immature woman. If two people love each other and the relationship is serious, there should be no comparisons with others, and especially with former lovers, even in thoughts.
This phrase can humiliate your man and provoke him to aggression. And the young man may also become jealous and distrustful of the woman.
Memories of the past make it clear that perhaps past love is not yet forgotten.
"Not today, I don't feel well."
Don't deprive a man of pleasure and don't irritate his nervous system.
Of course, there are different situations and poor health, but if the woman's behavior shows that this phrase was said on purpose, then you should not be surprised by cheating and your loved one being late from work. Learn to understand each other and empathize.
"But mom said that you need to do it this way..."
Undoubtedly, parents are important and authoritative people in every person’s life, but if a woman often cites her mother as an example or systematically involves her in the relationship, such a mistake can destroy the union.
A man may get the impression that he will soon live with his mother-in-law, not his wife. Such phrases irritate a young man, try not to involve strangers in the relationship if your husband is really a dear person.
"Oh my God, what are you wearing?"
It often happens that two loved ones have differences in taste and choice of clothes. Especially since men and women can see and distinguish colors differently.
If it so happens that the appearance does not give positive emotions, just go shopping together and unobtrusively offer this or that shirt, for example. And the best thing is to buy your man something he likes personally and arrange a romantic dinner.
Your husband will undoubtedly appreciate such an act. Do not offend or humiliate your loved one, because it is also important for him to be praised.
If you control your evil and bad emotions and thoughts, you can avoid many grievances and problems in family relationships. A wise woman will never throw wood on a burning fire.
Previously, it was reported about ways to deal with nerves .
