What to do if children want to get a dog: how to avoid quarrels and disagreements

10.02.2024 19:10

Many children dream of having a dog.

For parents, this is a difficult question: is it worth fulfilling the child’s wish or will it ultimately lead to stress and quarrels in the family?

If your child wants to get a dog, the first thing you as a parent should do is ask where this desire comes from.

Maybe your child's friend has a dog and would simply like to have one too. In such cases, there is little point in immediately giving in to the child's desire, since such desires usually pass quickly.
However, if your child has long been friends with all dogs within reach and repeats this desire several times over a long period of time, then it is worth thinking about getting him a pet.

Pets are very important for children. Through them, children learn to take responsibility. Often, children even become healthier if they have pets in their home.

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On the one hand, this is due to the fact that through animals children come into contact with a large number of microbes and they develop a stronger immune system.

On the other hand, a dog requires daily walks, which means it provides the child with movement in the fresh air.

Consider the long-term costs of owning a dog

Dog owners face many expenses, from daily food to initial equipment such as a leash and collar.

Don't forget about regular visits to the vet either. Parents should realistically assess whether the family can afford a dog at all or whether the child might be happy with other small animals such as guinea pigs, hamsters, etc.

The breed of the future dog also plays a role in the costs, as large dogs naturally eat much more and are often more susceptible to illnesses. In addition, some breeds are ideal for families, while others do not get along well with children.

Nowadays, for example, one of the most popular dog breeds is the charming and affectionate French Bulldog. Thanks to its affectionate nature, it is a good friend for children and at the same time does not let them get bored due to its energy.

Never leave small children alone with a dog. Even dogs that love children are somewhat unpredictable.

What Else Should You Consider Before Getting a Dog?

A dog in the house is a long-term solution: On average, a dog lives 10-13 years, depending on the breed. However, smaller dogs can live much longer.

All these years, dog owners have had a great responsibility, because a dog is a living creature with certain needs, and not a toy that can be put away when you don’t want to or don’t have time to deal with it. Therefore, the decision to get a dog should be well thought out.

A dog is completely dependent on its owner. They must constantly ensure that the dog is healthy and has everything it needs - food, water, other accessories, regular check-ups with a veterinarian, regular exercise, grooming, nail care, proper training and much more.

Before getting a dog, you also need to realize that this decision will affect the entire life of your family.

A dog is a big expense. It needs daily care. Don't forget about daily long walks with the dog!

Having a dog influences your vacation planning: either your four-legged friend goes on vacation with you, or you need someone who can reliably take care of the dog while you are away.

The living conditions should also be adapted to the dog. Large breeds in particular need a lot of exercise, so a garden is ideal. You should also make sure that no one in the family is allergic to dogs.

What age is best for children to get a dog. Of course, this depends on the individual developmental level of the child, but it is generally recommended that children be at least 10-11 years old.

Only then are they old enough to take responsibility for such a demanding creature as a dog.

However, parents should always remember that they also have a responsibility and should always be ready to take care of the pet.

Previously, we talked about what you need to know to get a husky .

Author: Valeria Kisternaya Editor of Internet resources